I've been super busy this past week, and I love it. The salon has never been busier, and we keep getting new clients that are just the loveliest people a salon owner could dream of.
Cheers to that.
It's basically been work work work every day, except for yesterday which we both took off, and even though I had planned brunch at Abbot Kinney, and shopping in Santa Monica, I slept for 18 hours straight, and woke up super late -- which of course was super confusing.
I think my type of insomnia should get its own name. The Lars sleeping bug. Or something.
This morning I took my husband in to work, and went to the market. Filled up the shopping cart with fruits, berries, nuts, and champagne. I'm doing my own little tasting right now, I mean, it might be 10:45 AM in California, but I was born in Norway, so it's always 9 hours later there. Excuses excuses excuses...
Also I'm building up the courage to go back to this semi-sketchy IPL laser place in Westwood in a couple of hours. I went there with a friend a couple of months ago, and was persuaded to purchase six sessions of IPL hair removal. I only have a couple of sessions left, and since American Express wouldn't refund me, I'm gonna get the full treatment, regardless of their unprofessionalism.
The first thing they told me when I went to my first laser session was that I could use a facelift! They also gave me a coupon for 50% off said facelift.
I mean, I am 25 years old, my skin is not that bad, and even suggesting to someone who has not even asked about plastic surgery, that they are in dire need of a facelift, is one of the rudest things I have experienced. Damn. I gave them a piece of my mind and they backed off. I hope they don't do that to someone with lower self esteem than I have -- being told you need a facelift at 25 wouldn't exactly encourage a healthy self esteem and confidence in ones own body.
I have no respect for anyone who practices and encourages body shaming on that level. It might've been okay in 1995, but it's just so far from acceptable behavior that I am wondering if this should be reported to a state agency or something? I want to believe that California has some sort of agency that would crack down on that, but I'm guessing not.
I came to this country in January of 2015, while Obama was still president, and there was hope. Democracy was solid. Freedoms were being expanded. I got married to Phil Ackerman in August of 2015, a few weeks after same sex marriage was federally legalized by the Supreme Court.
Fast forward to July of 2018. We have a president who is a sexual predator, his campaign manager is in jail, five members of his campaign have plead guilty to charges brought by the Mueller investigation, and now Trump gets to choose his second supreme court judge, a Mr. Kavanaugh who wants to overturn Roe v. Wade, which basically grants American women the right to choose abortion, based on a privacy clause.
This very privacy clause is also the foundation of the constitutional right for same sex couples to marry, and have that marriage federally recognized.
Our freedoms and democracy are under great threat. I have personally been in shock ever since Trump was elected, and I have not done enough to fight this oppression.
I have wanted to attend demonstrations in Los Angeles, but have been afraid of being arrested for participating, and if I’m arrested, I’ll also be deported.
I care more about the future of our democracy, our civil liberties, a woman's right to abortion, and my right to be married, to be frightened into silence by some ignorant "men" with way too much power, to care if I’m deported or not.
I’m not afraid to stand up for what I believe in anymore. Deport me if you want, my husband will come with me, and we’ll end up in Norway where gay rights are human rights, and women’s rights are human rights, and where even health care is a human right.
Hopefully I'll be able to say the same about America in my lifetime.
Still, we want to stay here, because we love this country. We want to make it better for future generations. I don't care if you're Republican or Democrat, what matters is if you're able to recognize that people are people, and we all deserve the right to live a peaceful life with a functional judicial system and indisputable civil liberties.
I want the people of this country to have basic human rights, like the rest of the developed world.
We will not be silenced ever again. It's time to wake the fuck up, America!
I'm Lars, born and raised in Norway, living the dream in California.